I am a positive and fun loving woman.My nature is to enjoy whatever I'm doing. Live theatre work has always shaped my life. Nothing is a greater artistic challenge. But the success isn't a substitute for having a partner in my life. It doesn't satisfy all my needs. I still come home alone. Someone waiting to hear about my day, take me in his arms and let me know that I'm loved.
He's concerned about the chaos of war, and global warming, yet he still cares about whether or not I slept well last night!
I'm a good listener, and people come to me with their problems. I take that as a good sign of my humanity.

I want a man who listens- who tries to understand my point of view on issues. And vice versa.
I am spontaneous and would look for my partner to be willing to take risks.
I need a man who will grow to to trust and respect me. To look forward to seeing me as often as possible. As I would, also.

I will always look for the positive in any situation, I will encourage, or provide solace when appropriate. I can be intense or easy going- I prefer conversation to television; I prefer the unusual to ordinary. I prefer to express my feelings rather then holding everything in.

Relationships take work and practice. Forgiveness and sacrifice. One shouldn't look at a relationship as making them whole- like a piece is missing until they can find a partner. A level of maturity, self control and insight into yourself as a whole person should precede finding a partner. Two "whole" people joining together.

As we grow older, and set in our ways- without accountability to anyone- living our life in a singular way, the commitment to a partnership can be life-changing, and often it takes time to scrape off the unnecessary edges until the two can fit together.

Most of us know how NOT to have a relationship. And perhaps have failed and been hurt, wounded. Therefore, mutual respect and trust are essential.

I also believe that without laughter, light-heartedness, the ability to laugh at our stumbles and errors, because we are human and not perfect. We must laugh at ourselves as well as the world at large- for there is humor in the way we all live together on this planet.

And I'm a dyed in the wool optimist. The ol' metaphor still exists- seeing the glass as half full.

If you have read my ramblings this far- I thank-you. Sometimes I sound like I make things more difficult than they really are, but I am truly a woman who takes pleasure in the simple things in life. And has a heart full of love for us all.

-Laura

(There must be someone reading this, who is looking for a partner- don't you sometimes feel like we are marketing ourselves? Advertising? Because superficially we discard some b

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